Myth: I don't have time to work on a budget. Truth: You don't have time not to. Budgeting. The dreaded "B" word. Budget. The only other word that starts with "B" that might generate a worse reaction in most people is the word bankruptcy.
Unfortunately, the word budget has gotten a bum rap. It is basically just a plan. When you budget, you're spending on paper, on purpose, before the month begins. But many people view a budget as a straight jacket that keeps them constrained. Freedom and budget just don't seem to go together.
However, when you see that a budget is just spending your money with intention, you'll actually experience more freedom than before. Many people say they've found even more money when they created a realistic budget and stuck with it.
Here's some helpful advice about budgeting:
1. Give it 3-4 months to start working. It won't be perfect the first time you do it.
2. Spend every dime on paper before the month begins.
3. Over-fund your groceries category. Most people underfund that category.
4. Husbands (if applicable) need to loosen up and quit using the budget as a whipping tool on their wives.
5. If married, spouses need to do the budget together. The preacher said ". . . and you are One."
For over 10 years, we've been teaching people how to get rid of debt...forever.
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