Im a fan of the hit TV show "Lost." In case youre not familiar with it (can you believe some folks dont watch TV?), its about a bunch of plane crash survivors living on an island full of mysteries. I always find it to be entertaining. But a recent episode was also (probably unintentionally) educational.

In that episode, a character named Hurley was assigned the task of controlling a newly found stash of food. Although its obvious from his size that Hurley loves to eat, he wasnt thrilled about being in charge of the food. Why? Because everyone liked Hurley, and that was very important to him.

"Everythings going to change," he lamented. He knew his fellow survivors would want the food, and theyd be mad at him when he did his "job" and kept it from them. The thought of losing their friendship stressed him out so much that he planned to destroy all the food rather than perform the difficult job hed been assigned!

Like Hurley, many of us hesitate to tell our boss when we are feeling overwhelmed by a task weve been given. Bosses just don't want to hear it, right? Well, it depends.

In many situations, your boss may be so busy that he cant keep track of the work you're doing or the problems you may be experiencing. Unless you speak up and tell your boss that youre having difficulty with an assignment, he'll assume everything is fine.

While the boss is unaware of your dilemma, youll struggle on your own to find a way to get the job done, becoming more frustrated and stressed about the assignment. It may even affect your mood and judgment so much that youll make a big mistake.

If this happens, your boss will not appreciate hearing, "But I couldnt handle it; I was overwhelmed!" Saying that after the fact will be much worse than telling your boss up frontbefore mistakes occurthat you're having trouble with your assignment.

If youre tasked to do something a certain way, and you feel theres a better alternative, speak up!

Hurley eventually came to his senses and did this. He went to his "boss" and suggested doing something completely different from the task hed been assigned. To his amazement, the response was "Sure, go ahead." Rather than controlling access, Hurley gave everyone food, they all remained friends, and the episode had a relatively happy ending.

Of course, real life doesnt always work like that. Sometimes youll just have to deal with a difficult job (or difficult boss) the best you can, with no way around it. But instead of assuming thats the case, find out. Do what Hurley did. Talk to your boss about it. Explain potential problems, and propose alternative courses of action.

Who knows? Maybe all is not "Lost!"