This may sound quite aberrant to most of the younger generations who are not really exposed to the personality development articles, books or motivational lectures.

Being positive does not indicate that we arent able to handle a situation which is of abstruse nature. Being positive means, seeing the opportunity, seeing the best option that is available in any situation.

Generally people criticize themselves, time and other previous situations whenever, they are caught up in a problem, jinx etc.

Basically, abecedarians who are undergoing personality development through self interest or by means of their parents, pretty well fall into such traps of criticizing themselves for what has happened. But, let me tell you, if you have chosen to be strong, then nothing can make you weak, if you have chosen to be weak, nothing can make you strong. The transformation from weak to strong and vice versa is very much dependent upon your self esteem The way you feel about yourself, will and of course positive attitude.

People are bound to make mistakes; and they should, in fact to make your brains work. Yes, when you commit mistakes or things go wrong, as they may sometimes, you do not have to feel inferior, rather be strong and fight back, make yourself capable to handle such situations. Above all learn; the more you learn, the more you achieve. As it is very precisely said:

Arise, awake and stop not till you goal is achieved.

Here, goal may be anything; it might be effective handling or learning.

When i say LEARN; i mean:

L - Lead
E - Effective
A - Alert
R - Realistic, ready, reasonable
N - Natty (smart)

Remember, being effective, alert, realistic and natty not only helps and enables you to act pragmatically, but, it also helps you in learning.

So, fear not my dear, rather strike hard and effectively. May this article bring lots of positive personality changes in you transforming your sole into a blend of intellect, boldness and bring out the natty features of yours whenever a hard task arises.

Last but not the least: Believe in you.

All the best.